Thursday, July 28, 2011
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Back from the honeymoon
Our honeymoon was great! Before we ever even got engaged, we bought tickets to the Gathering of the Vibes music festival in Bridgeport, CT. It so happened that it was July 21-24th....just in time to be our honeymoon. I couldn't think of a better way to celebrate our marriage then going to a festival. It's something we do so well together, always enjoying every moment. This time was no different.
We opted to leave Maine on Wednesday night and drive as long as we could before pulling over to sleep. We got about an hour out of Bridgeport at 4:20 am and pulled over for a 4 hour nap in a rest area. At 8am we got up and finished the drive, arriving on site at about 10:30 (it took us a while to get to the festival grounds because we didn't have directions and there were no signs up). However, a good Samaritan saw us driving around town (I'm thinking the hoops in the back of the car gave us away as festie goers), and had us follow him to the gates. Once there, we hit festival traffic, got lost 3 times, and eventually found our way into the right line for weekend camping. And what a line it was! It took us until 2:30 to go from the start of the line to our campsite. But it wasn't that bad. We hung up signs on our car that we were just married, turned on the Vibes radio station, and got to know our fellow Vibers. Security was a breeze once we got there because nothing wins over people searching your car like big smiles and just married signs! Then it was off to our campsite...
Our site was in the back of the camping, all the way towards the public beach....a 20 minute walk from the concert fields. And I use the term "campsite" loosely. Really we just pulled up in our car and the event staff guy said "get out quick and stake out your tent or you want have any space!" Not really the feel good way to start a festival....What they should have said was "get out, put up your tent, but make room for you neighbor." Cause boy did we have to make room. We had 3 girls from NYC next to us with a 12 person tent. And they had obviously never set up a tent or been camping in their lives. Luckily Tim and I didn't have a tent, we were just sleeping in the back of the subaru, so we could accomodate their massive tent (Tim also helped them set it up, the good man that he is). We simply popped up the e-z up over the back of the car, hung up tapestries, and we were set. By 3pm we were chillin' in our chairs, chatting up out neighbors and getting prepared to eat and head on into the show.
The first night we saw Dark Star Orchestra. For any dead fans out there, you know DSO puts on an amazing show, very similar to the actual dead show experience. This year they had Donna Godcheaux singing with them, which is a special treat for all those Donna fans (I'm not one, but my husband is). They pulled out some amazing tunes like Loose Lucy and Mama Tried (two of my favorites). The crowd was cheerful and bouncy, even after the heat and long drive in. Right as the band started a cheer from the back of the field filled the air and we turned to see a throng of festival goers pouring through the gates....it was amazing. We danced our butts off then finally bailed near the end of the show to start heading home to our campsite. I have a feeling we missed a killer ending and encore, but we could only push our bodies so much after the long night and day we already had getting there. Back at the campsite we utilized the public beach showers (ice cold water never felt so good) and then passed out in the back of the car.
At 7am on Friday we awoke to the most stifling air I have ever felt. Last year at Nateva we had a pretty hot day, but not as humid as it was on Friday in CT. The air was stifling. At about 10:30am we decided to leave camp and walk to the concert field before it got too hot. We sat in shade for two hours, then made our way to the front of the stage for the Ryan Montbleau Band. Anyone who knows us knows how much we LOVE seeing this band. Having hung out with them and gotten to know them makes the music that much more infectious. They have such a good time up there, even the heat couldn't keep Tim and I from dancing our asses off. They even did a spot-on recreation of the Back To The Future Johnny-B Goode, with Marty McFly busting out all crazy on the guitar during a dance in the 50's. It was hilarious! Mostly because there was only a handful of people in the audience up front with us of the right age to know what they were doing the moment the guitar player said "All right guys, uh, listen. This is a blues riff in B, watch me for the changes and try to keep up." Amazing!
The rest of Friday was spent moving from shady spot to shady spot, hitting the mist tent, drinking tons of water, and listening to the sweet tunes of Taj Mahal, then the Tedeschi Trucks band. We finally decided to head back to camp for food and a swim in what may have been our only bad decision of the weekend....we missed the Levon Helm Band. I really wanted to see him, but to make it worse, he had Bob Weir on stage, too and they played the one song I had wanted to hear this weekend - Deep Elem Blues. I missed it. And I'm very sad about that....Furthur was Friday night and in all honesty, I thought they sucked. I love Bob and Phil, but without Jerry, Mickey and Billy, there's no fire to their music. By the time they hit a very drab and boring Mason's Children, I had to bail on the show. We went back home and fell asleep, hoping for cooler weather on Saturday.
No luck, really. Saturday was almost as oppressive. But nothing was going to keep us from enjoying this day. There were three things keeping us going - it was our 1 week anniversary, Elvis Costello, and Jane's Addiction. First thing in the morning we jumped in the LI Sound for a swim (nastiest water I've ever been in), grabbed some breakfast sandwiches and coffee, and enjoyed our morning and early afternoon. After lunch, we donned some gold stars we had hanging all over our campsite (it was a steady influx of people congratulating us on our wedding after seeing our just married stars on the front of the car), grabbed our hoops and headed to the concert grounds. Max Creek was amazing, first time I've seen them, and certainly not the last. I'm hoping to get the money to go to Camp Creek in two weeks up in Oxford (same location as Nateva), if I can. Call it a birthday gift to myself. They were followed by a mellow, but still incredible, Deep Banana Blackout, a local Bridgeport band that is insanely amazing. The rest of the night became a sort of tipsy whirl of awesomeness. At some point during Deep Banana Blackout we realized that the beer we were drinking finally was having some sort of effect on us - we drank a few beers all weekend, but more just to cool off then anything. By the start of Moe, we had 3 beers and were gearing up for a stellar night of music.
Elvis Costello is the man. Period. End of story. He was my first musician crush as a kid....I loved him. And I still do. This is my 2nd time seeing him, but first time with a band. He kept that festival crowd on it's feet for his entire set. There are no words to describe this show, but to top it off, he covered the Dead's Must Have Been the Roses, one of Tim's and I's favorites. To hear him sing it with such emotion was beautiful.
And another fun thing happened during Elvis - we met 2 amazing guys from Idaho. They had won day tickets to the Vibes from Saranac. We spent the next hour and 1/2 hanging out with them and getting to know them - they bought us several beers and we shared our treats and blanket with them. I couldn't have asked for better festival friends for that brief amount of time....so glad to have met you Jason and Tim. Then came Jane's Addiction....
Melt your face. That's what their show should have been called. In the first few notes, after the black curtain fell, our friend Jason ran off into the crowd. 5 minutes later so did his friend Tim. And that was the last we saw of them. Hope you had an amazing show guys....we sure did. Part way through the first song, with a nice buzz on, I jumped to my feet, put on our backpack, and pulled Tim into the crowd. We spent the whole show probably 50 feet away from Perry Ferrel and Dave Navarro. I had such a great time, I can't even explain how fantastic it was. Jane's Addiction. I was 13 all over again! Finally, I grabbed Tim again and said "want to make it to the front?" We were off! We saw the last 3 songs (including Jane Says) only 2 people back from the front. Hot. Smoking Hot. Best way to end the day. After that we stumbled home to the campsite and crashed.
Sunday was bittersweet. There were a ton of great bands playing, but the kicker is that after they are done at 8pm you have to leave. And we had to be home to be with the kids Monday morning. If I didn't have to be there for them, I would have stayed the whole afternoon, slept in my car in a rest area and drove home. Another great regret is having to leave before the music ended. We missed the Rhythm Devils and John Butler Trio - two of the bands I specifically wanted to see and bought tickets for the festival because of them. Again, I wont' let it ruin my memory of the weekend, but it makes me sad none the less.
Before the music started, though, we had quite the mini heart attack. We were packing up our car in the morning, so it would be done and ready to go when we were, when we discovered we didn't have our car keys. Apparently in the hoopla of Jane's Addiction, they fell out of our bag on the concert grounds. Calmly, we walked all the way down to the Lost and Found and I walked up to the woman working and said "You are about to make my day because you have my car keys." The kid behind her reached into a box and voila - my keys. What a miracle!!!!
That, and Dr. John, Wavy Gravy's 75th birthday (he was emceeing the Vibes), and running into our friends Joe and Valerie on the way out of the concert grounds, sent us off onto a great drive home back to Maine. We arrived at 11pm, dirty, stinking of festival, and blissfully in love. Not once did we let anything get us down all weekend. Like I said, we festival really well together.
We opted to leave Maine on Wednesday night and drive as long as we could before pulling over to sleep. We got about an hour out of Bridgeport at 4:20 am and pulled over for a 4 hour nap in a rest area. At 8am we got up and finished the drive, arriving on site at about 10:30 (it took us a while to get to the festival grounds because we didn't have directions and there were no signs up). However, a good Samaritan saw us driving around town (I'm thinking the hoops in the back of the car gave us away as festie goers), and had us follow him to the gates. Once there, we hit festival traffic, got lost 3 times, and eventually found our way into the right line for weekend camping. And what a line it was! It took us until 2:30 to go from the start of the line to our campsite. But it wasn't that bad. We hung up signs on our car that we were just married, turned on the Vibes radio station, and got to know our fellow Vibers. Security was a breeze once we got there because nothing wins over people searching your car like big smiles and just married signs! Then it was off to our campsite...
Our site was in the back of the camping, all the way towards the public beach....a 20 minute walk from the concert fields. And I use the term "campsite" loosely. Really we just pulled up in our car and the event staff guy said "get out quick and stake out your tent or you want have any space!" Not really the feel good way to start a festival....What they should have said was "get out, put up your tent, but make room for you neighbor." Cause boy did we have to make room. We had 3 girls from NYC next to us with a 12 person tent. And they had obviously never set up a tent or been camping in their lives. Luckily Tim and I didn't have a tent, we were just sleeping in the back of the subaru, so we could accomodate their massive tent (Tim also helped them set it up, the good man that he is). We simply popped up the e-z up over the back of the car, hung up tapestries, and we were set. By 3pm we were chillin' in our chairs, chatting up out neighbors and getting prepared to eat and head on into the show.
The first night we saw Dark Star Orchestra. For any dead fans out there, you know DSO puts on an amazing show, very similar to the actual dead show experience. This year they had Donna Godcheaux singing with them, which is a special treat for all those Donna fans (I'm not one, but my husband is). They pulled out some amazing tunes like Loose Lucy and Mama Tried (two of my favorites). The crowd was cheerful and bouncy, even after the heat and long drive in. Right as the band started a cheer from the back of the field filled the air and we turned to see a throng of festival goers pouring through the gates....it was amazing. We danced our butts off then finally bailed near the end of the show to start heading home to our campsite. I have a feeling we missed a killer ending and encore, but we could only push our bodies so much after the long night and day we already had getting there. Back at the campsite we utilized the public beach showers (ice cold water never felt so good) and then passed out in the back of the car.
At 7am on Friday we awoke to the most stifling air I have ever felt. Last year at Nateva we had a pretty hot day, but not as humid as it was on Friday in CT. The air was stifling. At about 10:30am we decided to leave camp and walk to the concert field before it got too hot. We sat in shade for two hours, then made our way to the front of the stage for the Ryan Montbleau Band. Anyone who knows us knows how much we LOVE seeing this band. Having hung out with them and gotten to know them makes the music that much more infectious. They have such a good time up there, even the heat couldn't keep Tim and I from dancing our asses off. They even did a spot-on recreation of the Back To The Future Johnny-B Goode, with Marty McFly busting out all crazy on the guitar during a dance in the 50's. It was hilarious! Mostly because there was only a handful of people in the audience up front with us of the right age to know what they were doing the moment the guitar player said "All right guys, uh, listen. This is a blues riff in B, watch me for the changes and try to keep up." Amazing!
The rest of Friday was spent moving from shady spot to shady spot, hitting the mist tent, drinking tons of water, and listening to the sweet tunes of Taj Mahal, then the Tedeschi Trucks band. We finally decided to head back to camp for food and a swim in what may have been our only bad decision of the weekend....we missed the Levon Helm Band. I really wanted to see him, but to make it worse, he had Bob Weir on stage, too and they played the one song I had wanted to hear this weekend - Deep Elem Blues. I missed it. And I'm very sad about that....Furthur was Friday night and in all honesty, I thought they sucked. I love Bob and Phil, but without Jerry, Mickey and Billy, there's no fire to their music. By the time they hit a very drab and boring Mason's Children, I had to bail on the show. We went back home and fell asleep, hoping for cooler weather on Saturday.
No luck, really. Saturday was almost as oppressive. But nothing was going to keep us from enjoying this day. There were three things keeping us going - it was our 1 week anniversary, Elvis Costello, and Jane's Addiction. First thing in the morning we jumped in the LI Sound for a swim (nastiest water I've ever been in), grabbed some breakfast sandwiches and coffee, and enjoyed our morning and early afternoon. After lunch, we donned some gold stars we had hanging all over our campsite (it was a steady influx of people congratulating us on our wedding after seeing our just married stars on the front of the car), grabbed our hoops and headed to the concert grounds. Max Creek was amazing, first time I've seen them, and certainly not the last. I'm hoping to get the money to go to Camp Creek in two weeks up in Oxford (same location as Nateva), if I can. Call it a birthday gift to myself. They were followed by a mellow, but still incredible, Deep Banana Blackout, a local Bridgeport band that is insanely amazing. The rest of the night became a sort of tipsy whirl of awesomeness. At some point during Deep Banana Blackout we realized that the beer we were drinking finally was having some sort of effect on us - we drank a few beers all weekend, but more just to cool off then anything. By the start of Moe, we had 3 beers and were gearing up for a stellar night of music.
Elvis Costello is the man. Period. End of story. He was my first musician crush as a kid....I loved him. And I still do. This is my 2nd time seeing him, but first time with a band. He kept that festival crowd on it's feet for his entire set. There are no words to describe this show, but to top it off, he covered the Dead's Must Have Been the Roses, one of Tim's and I's favorites. To hear him sing it with such emotion was beautiful.
And another fun thing happened during Elvis - we met 2 amazing guys from Idaho. They had won day tickets to the Vibes from Saranac. We spent the next hour and 1/2 hanging out with them and getting to know them - they bought us several beers and we shared our treats and blanket with them. I couldn't have asked for better festival friends for that brief amount of time....so glad to have met you Jason and Tim. Then came Jane's Addiction....
Melt your face. That's what their show should have been called. In the first few notes, after the black curtain fell, our friend Jason ran off into the crowd. 5 minutes later so did his friend Tim. And that was the last we saw of them. Hope you had an amazing show guys....we sure did. Part way through the first song, with a nice buzz on, I jumped to my feet, put on our backpack, and pulled Tim into the crowd. We spent the whole show probably 50 feet away from Perry Ferrel and Dave Navarro. I had such a great time, I can't even explain how fantastic it was. Jane's Addiction. I was 13 all over again! Finally, I grabbed Tim again and said "want to make it to the front?" We were off! We saw the last 3 songs (including Jane Says) only 2 people back from the front. Hot. Smoking Hot. Best way to end the day. After that we stumbled home to the campsite and crashed.
Sunday was bittersweet. There were a ton of great bands playing, but the kicker is that after they are done at 8pm you have to leave. And we had to be home to be with the kids Monday morning. If I didn't have to be there for them, I would have stayed the whole afternoon, slept in my car in a rest area and drove home. Another great regret is having to leave before the music ended. We missed the Rhythm Devils and John Butler Trio - two of the bands I specifically wanted to see and bought tickets for the festival because of them. Again, I wont' let it ruin my memory of the weekend, but it makes me sad none the less.
Before the music started, though, we had quite the mini heart attack. We were packing up our car in the morning, so it would be done and ready to go when we were, when we discovered we didn't have our car keys. Apparently in the hoopla of Jane's Addiction, they fell out of our bag on the concert grounds. Calmly, we walked all the way down to the Lost and Found and I walked up to the woman working and said "You are about to make my day because you have my car keys." The kid behind her reached into a box and voila - my keys. What a miracle!!!!
That, and Dr. John, Wavy Gravy's 75th birthday (he was emceeing the Vibes), and running into our friends Joe and Valerie on the way out of the concert grounds, sent us off onto a great drive home back to Maine. We arrived at 11pm, dirty, stinking of festival, and blissfully in love. Not once did we let anything get us down all weekend. Like I said, we festival really well together.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Sunday, July 17, 2011
We Did It!!!!
The Great Philosopher Nietzche once said: “Marriage is the will of two to create the one who is more than those who created it.” Perhaps never before today have these words rung so true, as we gather to celebrate the union between Tim and Samantha. The greatest of loves are often built on the foundation of true friendship. So it is with these two lovers. What started out as two familiar faces in the crowd being inexplicably drawn together time and again, led to a friendship that blossomed into the love and devotion that we are celebrating today. And what was once two divergent paths, two separate lives, has become one big beautiful family. Each brings their own set of treasures which they collected along their individual journeys. For Samantha there is her two sons, Dylan and Seamus, who inspired to be a better person and seek out true love. With Tim are his two children, TigerLily and Lion, that have encouraged him and given him the strength to become the man he needed to be in order to find true love. And love, true love, is what brings us together here today.
From this moment forward, Tim and Samantha will embrace the future and go together side by side, down the road less travelled and that will make all the difference. Their uniqueness brought them together. The strength of their love keeps them together, and it is their zest for life that will continue to propel them through the many ups and downs of their future together. We should be blessed and honored to be here to bear witness as closest friends and dear family at this moment in time, which marks the beginning of their journey.
Samantha: Do you promise to love Tim with all your heart and soul, respect and cherish him, continue to nourish his body and mind, to stand beside him in creating a loving environment for his children, to help him to keep striving, to hoop with him forever and always, pledge to be his lifelong dance partner, and always sigh with deep affection at his super geek qualities?
Tim: Do you promise to love Samantha with all your heart and soul, respect and cherish her, to make her feel beautiful everyday, to be a partner in all her endeavors to save the world, to stand beside her in creating a loving environment for her children, to always join her in the kitchen on crazy cooking adventures, to hoop with her forever and always, pledge to be her lifelong dance partner, and always sigh with deep affection when she signs up for yet another CSA?
Each of you has agreed to these vows to one another within the confines of a circle of honesty and commitment that shall not ever be broken. Your love, much like a circle, is infinite and all encompassing. In honor of your love, I ask that you now exchange a token of your promises to one another in the form of a ring.
May we please bring the rings forward. [exchange rings in silence]. Will you now bring forward the sash for the final hand fasting ceremony. As the circle you stand in represents your promises to one another, this sash represents the bond you share and your commitment to each other. As your hands are clasped together now, so shall they be for all eternity.
As the rings symbolize your vows, and the sash represents your commitment, so shall a kiss represent your love.
Friends and family, it is my great honor to present to you, as husband and wife, Mama and Papa. Now we ask that you all join the new couple in celebration by shaking your groove thing in a ceremonial hoop jam.
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Monday, July 11, 2011
It's almost here....
We are now into the final week before the wedding and I still feel like there is so much to do. I have finish making the decorations, find enough plates and silverware, make all the food (with my brother's help), wash and iron everyone's clothes....actually the list is endless and too long to write out here. On top of all that, I'm sick. I didn't sleep at all last night and was up with a wretched stomach ache and a cold sweat. I finally fell asleep around 7:30, but I have kids, so that didn't last long. Now I find I don't have the energy to get off the couch, let alone do all the things I need to do. I did go to the chiropractor today, and scheduled another appointment for Friday - low and behold I was extremely tense! I don't know how I'll squeeze in that final appointment before the wedding, but I have to...I don't want to be tense on Saturday.
As for logistics, it looks like we have a band for some of the night. And I have an ipod for filler. If any of you musicians want to bring your instruments (or fine tuned vocal chords) please do! Let's get a jam session going!
Finally, I want to say how thankful and appreciative I am of all of you coming to support us on this big day. For those of you who are close to us, you know our journey here has not be easy. Meshing two families (a la Brady Bunch style) has been difficult. Having each been married before means coming into this relationship with a whole lot of extra baggage. My ex, from the day I told him that I was dating Tim, has been incredibly supportive and often tells us how blessed our children are to have Tim when he himself cannot be around. He is not perfect by any means, though, and dealing with him has put quite the strain on our relationship at times. Tim's ex has been even more difficult and has tried her hardest to break us up from the moment we began dating. But she underestimated the power of our love. We have made it through, and continue to persevere.
I know getting married won't make this extra baggage any lighter, but what we do hope is that we will have each other to help carry the weight.
-Samantha
As for logistics, it looks like we have a band for some of the night. And I have an ipod for filler. If any of you musicians want to bring your instruments (or fine tuned vocal chords) please do! Let's get a jam session going!
Finally, I want to say how thankful and appreciative I am of all of you coming to support us on this big day. For those of you who are close to us, you know our journey here has not be easy. Meshing two families (a la Brady Bunch style) has been difficult. Having each been married before means coming into this relationship with a whole lot of extra baggage. My ex, from the day I told him that I was dating Tim, has been incredibly supportive and often tells us how blessed our children are to have Tim when he himself cannot be around. He is not perfect by any means, though, and dealing with him has put quite the strain on our relationship at times. Tim's ex has been even more difficult and has tried her hardest to break us up from the moment we began dating. But she underestimated the power of our love. We have made it through, and continue to persevere.
I know getting married won't make this extra baggage any lighter, but what we do hope is that we will have each other to help carry the weight.
-Samantha
Thursday, June 30, 2011
16 DAYS!!!!
July is here!!!! It's officially my birthday month - as anyone who knows me, they know that even though my birthday is the 2nd to last day of July, the whole darn month is a celebration. What could be more awesome than a wedding smack dab in the middle of it! I'm getting so excited for everything. Tim and I wrote our ceremony & vows the other night. Our wedding rings are being made for us this weekend (thank you Val!!!), my dress is being put together (thank you Anna!!!), my decorations are....well, decorations are still coming along slowly, and the food is coming together. I'm trying to stay calm in realizing that everything will not work out as planned, things will change along the way, and to just adapt and let everything fall into place as it will.
Our biggest headache as of late has been the music situation. The original band could not get a drummer, our 2nd choice band could not get a drummer....I'm sensing a pattern....and then we spent the money on other weddingy things. But I do believe we've got it figured out now. We have a band that offered to play for free for a single set, then the stage will be open to all you musical friends out there. So please bring your instruments, your singing voice, heck, bring some of your band members, and let's put on a good show. We will also have an ipod back-up for those moments where everyone is too busy eating/drinking/chatting to get up on stage.
With just over 2 weeks left, let's run through the details for everyone. The ceremony is July 16th at 4pm at Bath Library Park Gazebo. Following that, the reception is at the Bath Country Club. There will be finger foods (a lot), but no sit-down meal. There is a cash bar. We have the space until 9pm, then Tim & I are thinking of heading over to the Topsham Sea Dog for Karaoke to wrap up the night. Please please please join us!
What I need at this point is a group that will be willing to meet me early in the day to set up the reception hall and ceremony site, then a group that will stay behind to help clean up both. I really don't want to have to do this myself so if anyone would be willing to help, that would be fantastic. Also, a "chauffeur" for the day/night would be grand...but I'm sure we'll figure that one out that day.
Lastly, kids are welcome at the ceremony and the reception. My 4 will be there. However, I would greatly appreciate that if you bring kids, you please be responsible by watching them around the food, cake and guests. My kids will be leaving to be babysat around 6pm, but yours are more than welcome to stay. I don't mind them being there at all, I just want a break from having to watch my own ;-) And if anyone has ideas for things to amuse the kids, please let me know. I'd love to have something for them to all do that is low-impact yet amusing.
Okay, that's all for now....of to go to the craft store!
Our biggest headache as of late has been the music situation. The original band could not get a drummer, our 2nd choice band could not get a drummer....I'm sensing a pattern....and then we spent the money on other weddingy things. But I do believe we've got it figured out now. We have a band that offered to play for free for a single set, then the stage will be open to all you musical friends out there. So please bring your instruments, your singing voice, heck, bring some of your band members, and let's put on a good show. We will also have an ipod back-up for those moments where everyone is too busy eating/drinking/chatting to get up on stage.
With just over 2 weeks left, let's run through the details for everyone. The ceremony is July 16th at 4pm at Bath Library Park Gazebo. Following that, the reception is at the Bath Country Club. There will be finger foods (a lot), but no sit-down meal. There is a cash bar. We have the space until 9pm, then Tim & I are thinking of heading over to the Topsham Sea Dog for Karaoke to wrap up the night. Please please please join us!
What I need at this point is a group that will be willing to meet me early in the day to set up the reception hall and ceremony site, then a group that will stay behind to help clean up both. I really don't want to have to do this myself so if anyone would be willing to help, that would be fantastic. Also, a "chauffeur" for the day/night would be grand...but I'm sure we'll figure that one out that day.
Lastly, kids are welcome at the ceremony and the reception. My 4 will be there. However, I would greatly appreciate that if you bring kids, you please be responsible by watching them around the food, cake and guests. My kids will be leaving to be babysat around 6pm, but yours are more than welcome to stay. I don't mind them being there at all, I just want a break from having to watch my own ;-) And if anyone has ideas for things to amuse the kids, please let me know. I'd love to have something for them to all do that is low-impact yet amusing.
Okay, that's all for now....of to go to the craft store!
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Cook for the Cure and our Wedding
I receive weekly newsletters from YourOliveBranch.org, full of inspiring stories that are changing the world. In this weeks there was a write-up of Kitchen Aide's Cook for the Cure to raise money for breast cancer. They want 1,000 cooks to host a party centered around food and take donations to be sent to either local or national breast cancer awareness funds. The dates are July 15-24th. How perfect! With our wedding on the 16th, I decided to register as a cook for the cure. Since my brother and I, and many of our friends, are going to be doing a great deal of the cooking for the reception, and because I'm such a food freak who loves to spend all day in the kitchen, I figured it was the perfect icing for our wedding. For more information on it, check out the website here.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Reception Woes Subsided
It took 24 hours of frantic scrambling, but I do believe we have finalized a reception space. The Bath Country Club has a beautiful room that overlooks the green, has a bar, porch, dance floor, and everything else I thought I wouldn't end up with at my reception. It's fantastic and will make our day that much more special. Below are directions to the wedding and reception sites. These are from the south as I believe all of our attendees will be coming from that direction. If you need more specific directions or help in any way finding the places, feel free to email me.
Also, post-reception Tim & I will be heading off to the Sea Dog in Topsham for their karaoke night to wrap up the days festivities. Please join us and watch Tim sing with me (and maybe, just maybe, but mostly likely not, I will sing, too). This just seems appropriate for us considering it was there that Tim proposed to me, in song, so it should be there that we close out our wedding day. In all likely-hood we will need a chauffeur from the wedding, to reception, to karaoke, so if anyone is feeling especially friendly and loving of us, we would greatly appreciate it.
Lastly, again we do have food being catered by my wonderful brother (Bistro Catering), but I would love for anyone who wants to bring a dish to share. Keep it simple and something that doesn't require being kept hot. I will have white placards out for people to write down what their dish is and whether or not its vegetarian or vegan (we have some friends who would very much like to know this when they are choosing their foods to eat). Mostly what we'll be serving is salads and appetizers and simple finger foods - any additions would be wonderful.
Map to Library Park Gazebo is here. And from the Gazebo to the Country Club is here.
Also, post-reception Tim & I will be heading off to the Sea Dog in Topsham for their karaoke night to wrap up the days festivities. Please join us and watch Tim sing with me (and maybe, just maybe, but mostly likely not, I will sing, too). This just seems appropriate for us considering it was there that Tim proposed to me, in song, so it should be there that we close out our wedding day. In all likely-hood we will need a chauffeur from the wedding, to reception, to karaoke, so if anyone is feeling especially friendly and loving of us, we would greatly appreciate it.
Lastly, again we do have food being catered by my wonderful brother (Bistro Catering), but I would love for anyone who wants to bring a dish to share. Keep it simple and something that doesn't require being kept hot. I will have white placards out for people to write down what their dish is and whether or not its vegetarian or vegan (we have some friends who would very much like to know this when they are choosing their foods to eat). Mostly what we'll be serving is salads and appetizers and simple finger foods - any additions would be wonderful.
Map to Library Park Gazebo is here. And from the Gazebo to the Country Club is here.
Monday, June 20, 2011
Reception Issues
Sooooo....apparently the city of Bath will not allow me to have a street party for our wedding reception. Our backyard isn't big enough (or pretty enough) for it either. Now I'm 3 weeks away from the wedding and back to square one. I'm not freaking out. I trust the pieces will fall into place, but I could REALLY use some suggestions. Any ideas?? I have a large 20x20 tent to use so I could have it outside, but I don't have any friends with large yards to put it in. I have a band, cake, guests, food....no reception hall. What to do.....
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Only a month left....
It's official. I'm in total freak-out mode. I have 1 month left until the wedding and we haven't done anything to prepare. I have no decorations. No food. No tables. Barely any RSVP's. I haven't set up the proper permission for the blocking of our street. We haven't written our vows and ceremony. Hell, we haven't even gone down to city hall to get our marriage certificate. Wow. Who knew a wedding could be so stressful? I mean, I imagine those planning a real white, big-to-do wedding deal with this, but I didn't think I would for a 2nd marriage. I just want it all to go right. However, being practical as I am, I can say that honestly, whatever doesn't get done, doesn't get done. There's nothing I can do about it.
That said, if anyone wants to help out in any way, I'd love the assistance. Tim and I are doing everything DIY so there's a lot to be done. However, he works PT and takes classes. I have my 2 kids all week and all 4 on the weekend, plus I'm writing a Climate Adaptation Plan for Bath. I'm super busy. He's super busy. So any help would be G-R-E-A-T. Even just words of support would be amazing....And maybe a few more RSVP's.
-S
That said, if anyone wants to help out in any way, I'd love the assistance. Tim and I are doing everything DIY so there's a lot to be done. However, he works PT and takes classes. I have my 2 kids all week and all 4 on the weekend, plus I'm writing a Climate Adaptation Plan for Bath. I'm super busy. He's super busy. So any help would be G-R-E-A-T. Even just words of support would be amazing....And maybe a few more RSVP's.
-S
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
A Few Things....
As many of you know, this is our 2nd wedding each and we aren't the frilly type. So, with that in order, expect a fairly relaxed day. Here's a few things I wanted to let all of you know beforehand.
1. Dress is summer casual - no need for high heels and fancy dresses. Keep it comfortable.
2. Bring your favorite camping/lawn chairs. The ceremony will be standing, unless you have a chair and want to sit. Don't worry, it won't take long! And the chairs would be super helpful at the reception.
3. The reception will be catered, but we are only offering up light simple foods. If you want to bring a dish to share, please do. There will be little cards to write what your dish is, and if it has meat (we have some vegetarians in the audience), to place in front of it. Also, we will have a grill ready, with some meat and non-meat options. However, please feel free to bring your own!! It will be a self-serve situation.
4. The reception will have a keg, but if you are picky about what you drink, or just want to bring something to share, please do (and maybe a cooler if you have one). I will also offer up non-alcoholic options, but if you have something you like, bring it along.
That's all for now. I'm sure I'll keep posting things as they come. This is turning out to be a lot of fun and I'm trying my best to keep the stress to a bare minimum. The only thing that matters on this day is that we are married by the end of it, and that we all had the best time that we could.
1. Dress is summer casual - no need for high heels and fancy dresses. Keep it comfortable.
2. Bring your favorite camping/lawn chairs. The ceremony will be standing, unless you have a chair and want to sit. Don't worry, it won't take long! And the chairs would be super helpful at the reception.
3. The reception will be catered, but we are only offering up light simple foods. If you want to bring a dish to share, please do. There will be little cards to write what your dish is, and if it has meat (we have some vegetarians in the audience), to place in front of it. Also, we will have a grill ready, with some meat and non-meat options. However, please feel free to bring your own!! It will be a self-serve situation.
4. The reception will have a keg, but if you are picky about what you drink, or just want to bring something to share, please do (and maybe a cooler if you have one). I will also offer up non-alcoholic options, but if you have something you like, bring it along.
That's all for now. I'm sure I'll keep posting things as they come. This is turning out to be a lot of fun and I'm trying my best to keep the stress to a bare minimum. The only thing that matters on this day is that we are married by the end of it, and that we all had the best time that we could.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
The moment you've been waiting for....
Here it is....(drum roll please)...THE WEDDING INVITATION:
This party will be rain or shine! Don't worry, we'll have you covered :-) And please bring your lawn/camping chairs to both the ceremony and the reception so we have plenty of spaces for people to rest their aching bones after hours of dancing, hooping, and general mayhem.
Please RSVP as soon as possible so we can get a head count for the food. Thanks!
Please RSVP as soon as possible so we can get a head count for the food. Thanks!
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Reception....
Where o' where are we going to party down after the wedding? This has been bugging us since day one. Originally we had planned on having a block party, which is still by far the coolest option. However, I started to panic over rain and weather when I read the farmer's almanac - apparently that week is going to be hit with a slew of severe thunderstorms and a potential hurricane. Awesome. I'm not one to totally buy into the farmer's almanac, but at the same time, it planted a seed of doubt in my brain.
Now Tim and I have literally no money for this wedding, and I mean no money. That's why everything is going to be DIY, and that was the reason behind the block party. However, in light of my fear of bad weather, we may need to rent a reception hall. This is proving to be WAY more difficult than I had expected. My criteria seem simple:
1. I need to get in beforehand and decorate.
2. I would like to not have to undecorate until the next morning.
3. I want electricity for a band.
4. I want to be able to drink, preferably without a bartender, but I can adapt.
5. Tables and chairs are required.
We don't need waiters, decorators, wedding aides, etc. I just want an open space where Tim and I, and all our lovely friends and family can listen to music, drink some beers, munch some of the delicious food, and have a good time...without having to worry about cleaning up after ourselves that night.
So, if anyone out there has any ideas or suggestions, please please please post a comment.
Thanks all!
Now Tim and I have literally no money for this wedding, and I mean no money. That's why everything is going to be DIY, and that was the reason behind the block party. However, in light of my fear of bad weather, we may need to rent a reception hall. This is proving to be WAY more difficult than I had expected. My criteria seem simple:
1. I need to get in beforehand and decorate.
2. I would like to not have to undecorate until the next morning.
3. I want electricity for a band.
4. I want to be able to drink, preferably without a bartender, but I can adapt.
5. Tables and chairs are required.
We don't need waiters, decorators, wedding aides, etc. I just want an open space where Tim and I, and all our lovely friends and family can listen to music, drink some beers, munch some of the delicious food, and have a good time...without having to worry about cleaning up after ourselves that night.
So, if anyone out there has any ideas or suggestions, please please please post a comment.
Thanks all!
Monday, May 16, 2011
Last Name Issues
I never thought this would be an issue, but it is. What do I do about my last name when Tim and I get married. I have the following options:
1. Take his last name and ditch mine or add it as a middle name.
2. Hyphenate our last names.
3. Make a new name from our 2 last names.
4. Create an entirely new name.
All of these come with their pros and cons. First of all, since we both have children from previous marriages, there is the issue of their last names not matching our last names. His children have 2 different last names (Peterson & Peterson-Goad), whereas my 2 have my ex-husband's last name. Utilizing any of the choices above means my children will not have my last name at all (which they don't now anyway), but doing 3 or 4 means his kids will not have his last name (which one doesn't already). How do we come up with a decision that makes us a family? I would really appreciate suggestions in the comments section as to how to handle this situation. Apparently being part of a modern family means not having any rules to follow....this can be a good thing and a bad thing all at the same time.
1. Take his last name and ditch mine or add it as a middle name.
2. Hyphenate our last names.
3. Make a new name from our 2 last names.
4. Create an entirely new name.
All of these come with their pros and cons. First of all, since we both have children from previous marriages, there is the issue of their last names not matching our last names. His children have 2 different last names (Peterson & Peterson-Goad), whereas my 2 have my ex-husband's last name. Utilizing any of the choices above means my children will not have my last name at all (which they don't now anyway), but doing 3 or 4 means his kids will not have his last name (which one doesn't already). How do we come up with a decision that makes us a family? I would really appreciate suggestions in the comments section as to how to handle this situation. Apparently being part of a modern family means not having any rules to follow....this can be a good thing and a bad thing all at the same time.
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